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Posted: Saturday, 04 July 2009 12:10PM
Downturn dating: Hearts flutter as markets stutter
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CHICAGO (AP) - Credit the recession for staycations and bringing us more game-night parties at home. But also give it a shout for spurring more first dates.
Economic woes, it seems, unleash something practically primal in many of us who find ourselves without a partner: a hard-wired desire for companionship.
At the monthly Chicago dating event Nerds at Heart, attendance was more than double expectations in April and has stayed high since.
For $25, singles at the events get a drink and a chance to spend the evening clustered around trivia and board games.
At the Chicago wine bar In Fine Spirits, general manager Brandon Wise says the changing dating culture has lead to a roughly 30 percent increase in the number of parties of two.
Experts say, in a nutshell, misery loves company.
A date doesn't need to break the bank, especially as potential partners are increasingly likely to value substance over style during the recession.
These tips will help you whittle the costs of wooing and give the phrase ``cheap date'' new meaning.
1. DO YOUR HOMEWORK. Does your date dig dive bars? Or a neighborhood taqueria? Sometimes finding a hole-in-the- wall place - instead of relying on the trendiest spot - will save you money and could earn you brownie points. Just be careful: Suggesting drinks someplace that only serves Natural Light isn't going to be a home run with everyone.
2. GET CULTURAL. Museums, aquariums, zoos and planetariums are guaranteed to provide entertainment, education and - best of all - conversation starters so they're usually worth the low price of admission. If that's still too much, go on their free or reduced-price days. Another option: museums' adults-only events, such as Nightlife, held weekly after hours at San Francisco's California Academy of Sciences, where $10 gets you access to exhibits and live music. Patronize the bars stationed throughout the nature museum and you can drink with the fishes.
3. CHECK THE CALENDAR. With summer comes an abundance of free - or cheap - outdoor activities. Check with your community's parks department for festivals, free concerts, theater in the park, outdoor movie nights, even dance lessons. Your local library or university event calendar will offer lectures, book readings and film screenings. And few events offer more free cachet than an opening at an offbeat art gallery.
4. MAKE IT YOURSELF. Pack a picnic - roasting a chicken just ahead of time provides an easy treat - and head to a local botanical garden, nature preserve, beach or park. Make sure you bring a blanket and some hot chocolate if it's chilly and you're thinking of hanging out under the stars. Or follow up with a bike ride, hike or easy stroll to burn off the calories.
5. BROWN BAG IT. Check ahead whether your dining spot will let you bring along your favorite wine or a six-pack. Even with a corkage fee, bringing your own drinks will cost less than ordering from the menu at most restaurants, where a glass of wine typically costs as much as you would pay for the whole bottle at a store.
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